15 Months

Well, it's time for a Maryn update.  Can't believe she's already 15 months old!  I feel like I just wrote her 12 month update!  One thing is becoming clear, Maryn is a very verbal girl.  She likes to talk.  Loudly.  All the time.  To any one who will listen.  Her vocabulary is rapidly growing (book, ball, bye-bye, night-night, banana, apple, water, shoe, sock, keys, up, snack, baby, one, outside, diaper, Elmo, George, Momma, Dadda, Graycie, Elliott); of course, most of these words aren't perfectly enunciated or anything - she requires an interpreter still, but we know what she's saying.  Her favorite is still "Hi!" which she says constantly at home and anywhere we go - it's her first word in the morning.  Now she also says, "Hi, babe!" or Hi, Bay-bay!"  I guess because we say "Hi babe" or "Hi, baby" to her all the time.  It's so funny.

She also LOVES for us to read books to her (her current favorite is Pat the Bunny).  She probably drags a book over to one of us and says, "Boo?" about a million times a day.  And she throws an outrageous fit if you say no.  Speaking of which, fits are another new development; these include screaming, crying, hitting, stomping, and momentary despair.  Yeah...we're working on it.  She is getting better at following simple commands, which is nice ("Sit on your bottom", "Bring me your shoe", "Put it in the trash", "Get your milk" etc).  But this means she is also getting good at disobeying commands, like, "Bring that to me" followed by a crazy, giggling, maniacal run as fast as she can away from me.  I can't help but laugh most of the time.

Of course she's walking (nearly running) and getting into everything.  She has learned to get down from furniture like the couch, but she can't climb up yet, so that's frustrating to her.  Curious George is still the most loved toy.  If she can't find him she goes from room to room calling for him ("George? George! Geeeooorrrggge?!").  She loves her ride and push car, her grocery sack, her baby doll, her blocks, her Noah's ark animals, and of course, our cell phones.  She also likes to go outside and see the trees, leaves, grass, acorns and possibly a dog or a cat ("Woof! Meow!").  Currently, she is also obsessed with socks and shoes - we find both ours and hers all over the place because she is always dragging them out.  Another favorite thing is several times a day, she puts a bag over her shoulder and says "Bye!" and walks toward the front door or down the hall; then she comes back as if she was gone a long time and says, "Hi!".  So cute.  She also loves to talk to herself in the mirror on the back of the bathroom door while I get ready in the mornings.

She's still a pretty picky eater.  She does have a new found love for fish sticks which is pretty funny.  But thankfully she's gaining weight; at the pediatrician's a couple of weeks ago she weighed 18.8 lbs!  Which is up to the 4th percentile - yay, back on the chart!  The day before she turned 15 months old, she completely weaned herself - at that time we were only nursing once a day.  So that's been sad and very freeing at the same time for me.  She still has a little bit of iron-deficient anemia, so we're giving her an iron supplement; she's slowly increasing her meat intake, too, so hopefully we'll be able to get off the supplement in a couple of months.

I swear she gets cuter every day.  She's just growing up too fast.  She's learning so much and changing so quickly that it's getting really difficult to adequately write these updates; I could never include it all! Here are some highlights of the last 3 months:

13 Months

14 Months

15 Months

She loved her pool this summer

She always sleeps on George now...so sweet

Sesame Street videos are our source of sanity

She loves saying that she's one

George and Pat the Bunny

Loves her car

Fall pics

Wearing Daddy's shoes

Fish sticks!

Church

So, as I mentioned recently, I have yet to write a post on our church.  Which just seems so ridiculous to me for so many reasons, but I think it's because I just have too much to say.  When we were planning on moving, we knew that the most important thing we needed to do was find a church, a body of believers that would be our family.  We found Fulkerson Baptist Church in Niles, Michigan on the Nine Marks website, and began reading everything from the church website, following the pastor's blog, and listening to sermons.  From what we could tell, it seemed like everything we prayed to find.  Of course, you never know until you actually visit a place, and meet the people.  After 2 or 3 visits, we knew we were home.  Here is a picture of us on the Sunday we joined, along with several other families; we are on the very far left, with Maryn:

We absolutely love our church.  It's on the smaller side, which means there are plenty of opportunities to serve.  There are lots of young families like us, but younger and older generations are also well represented, and worship alongside one another.  The preaching/teaching is seriously amazing - we can't get enough.  We love the pastor, the other elders, the music, the rest of the leadership; we love the people.  We love the theology, the mission, the vision, the passion of this church.  

In the last couple of months, we have begun to transition from getting to know people and enjoying being blessed by the service of others, to beginning to get more involved and serve in various areas, which has been such a joy.  We have had opportunities to help on the worship team and in the nursery.  Billy recently became a deacon, and is very excited to be a servant within the church's ministry to the widows, orphans, and the poor.  I recently formed a new communications team to figure out ways to better inform the body about church events and announcements - I love the people I get to work with on this!  We also have recently joined a newly formed small group (our first small group was getting too big) and are really enjoying getting to know the people in our group.  Maybe our small group deserves its own blog post!  :)  

I recently read the book Radical by David Platt.  In it he says: "We need community in order to follow Christ radically.  I am convinced that one reason many of us have not taken radical steps in our giving, for example, may not be so much because we love our possessions as it is because we fear isolation.  If the radical, simple living we see Jesus talking about were more common in the church, it would be much easier for us to live simply as well.  But we look around, and everyone else has nice cars, nice homes, and lifestyles characterized by luxuries, so we accept that this must be the norm for Christians.  We may get convicted about our way of living when we look at the Bible, but then when we look at one another, we assume it must be okay because everyone else lives this way.  If we are going to live in radical obedience to Christ, we will need the church to do it.  We will need to show one another how to give liberally, go urgently, and live dangerously....In the process we will learn to depend on one another according to God's design."

We are very blessed, because Fulkerson Park does not fall into the category described above.  It is full of individuals and families who are living radically for the gospel of Christ.  People who give their time and money abundantly, who adopt orphans, who fight for the weak and the unborn, who selflessly love their neighbors, who work hard and sell possessions so they can go overseas to a dangerous place to reach the lost, who use their intellect to write books and go to school and teach for the glory of God, who use their trade skills to serve others and show God's love, who live very simply on small budgets so they can dedicate their lives to ministry, who drive beat up mini vans because they love kids more than luxury and status, who give up Sunday afternoons to care for those in nursing homes, who sacrifice and give when someone in the body or someone they know is in need, who pay for books for seminary students in Africa, who regularly and hospitably open up their homes to others, who spend hours planning and organizing ways for children to have gospel-hearing opportunites as well as their care so parents can have those opportunities also, who give up the American dream for the sake of a better Kingdom.  I could go on.  We are not worthy to be named among them.  In this environment, Billy and I are doing lots of growing, we are challenged, and we feel loved.  Isn't it amazing the way God works through local faith families?  We didn't even know these people existed just over a year ago, and now we feel one with them.

Curious to hear our pastor, Brian Hedges?  Here he is answering a question on Christianity.com.  

And here's our church website: www.fulkersonpark.com

A Birthday

I turned 27 just over a week ago, and I realized that birthdays are different once you become a parent.  The highlights of my birthday were 1) getting to go back to bed to sleep longer (until 9:00!) after I fed Maryn; 2) taking Maryn to see Curious George at the library; and 3) going on a date not even caring where we were going because I was just so happy to be alone with Billy.  I. Am. Old.  But loving it.  :)

Seriously, I had a great day.  Here are the highlights:

Beautiful flowers from my husby

Curious George: she was scared at first...

But ended up loving it.  She kept wanting to go back to say hi.

Vera Bradley bag!

Billy thought I was crazy when I requested lemon bars.
But being the sweetheart that he is he made them anyway.

And then a few days later came....the SURPRISE date!!!  Billy arranged for a babysitter (love you, Brette!) and had me come home from work early.  We ate at a cute little Italian restaurant downtown and then he took me to see Brian Regan live at the Morris Performing Arts Theater (where we saw James Taylor)!  It was such an awesome surprise.  We love Brian Regan (seriously, you should watch anything you can find of his - hilarious).  And I've never seen a live comedian before.  It was so fun to do something different on a date.  

So thankful to the Lord for my family, and the gift of another year!

Life Update

It's time for a Smith update.  I keep planning on doing lots of smaller blog posts but now I think it will be easier to have one big update post.  Because I'm kind of a lazy blogger.

School is back in full swing for Billy.  This is his last year of course work, which he is really excited about, but for now classes are just as stressful as ever.  He has also started his teaching assistant responsibilities; he is teaching two discussion sections (one all freshmen, one all upper classmen) and seems to be enjoying it.

We recently went to Notre Dame to walk around campus while the weather is nice.

My work schedule recently changed.  In order to get benefits, I needed to increase my hours to 24 a week.  So I work full days on Thursday and Friday, and on Tuesday and Wednesday I work from 4pm to 7:30pm.   Thankfully I really like my job and my coworkers.  But it is hard to be away from Maryn so much.  It has also become more difficult to coordinate our schedules, and getting things done around the house, grocery shopping and errands, and spending time with other people has become more of a challenge.  Our new schedules also caused transportation issues for our one car family.  Which leads to my next update.

We bought a car!  We found a 1998 Subaru Forester in Indianapolis that is just perfect for us.  Obviously it's not new, but it's a great car and it will be nice to have all wheel drive in the snow.  It was the first time Billy and I have ever bought a car and it was definitely the biggest purchase we have ever made so it was exciting.  And it feels really good to know that we saved up our money for something we can afford to pay cash for and not have a car payment.  We've never had a car payment and would like to keep it that way for as long as possible!  Here is a picture.  This isn't actually our car because I am too lazy to go take a picture of it, but it pretty much looks just like this.

In other news, we had our first family member visit from Oklahoma!  My Gramps and Grammy were vacationing in Chicago and came to see us.  It was so nice to see them.  We went to a restaurant on campus called Legends, which is basically a shrine to all Notre Dame sports.  Gramps had us cracking up while accosting the waitress about how much he hates Notre Dame because they beat OU back in 1957.  Somehow he ended up getting a free ice cream out of it.  Of course, Maryn charmed Gramps and Grammy with her cuteness.

Speaking of Maryn, she has officially entered toddlerhood.  She is walking everywhere and getting into every thing.  Which can be exhausting but lots of fun.  She's also learning lots of new words.  And Curious George is her ever-present best friend.

Also of note, we recently switched to cloth diapering.  We're kind of late since we're starting with a one year old, but better late than never, and we can use them for any future kiddos too.  We really love them. I'm sure lots of my friends would say, "I told you so."  :)  Maryn seems to like them too.

One other development that has been fun for us is a new monthly date night tradition we have started with our friends Kevin and Erica (parents of Maryn's BFF Elliott).  They watch Maryn while we go on a date and we watch Elliott likewise.  Last Saturday Billy and I got to eat at a fun Irish pub downtown called Fiddler's Hearth.  I had yummy authentic Irish stew.  Then we walked around downtown and got dessert and coffee at the South Bend Chocolate Company.  It was so nice to have some alone time together, and we are definitely grateful for and looking forward to more of these monthly dates!!!

Wall of local family coat of arms.   

Another huge part of our lives is our church, and I have lots to write about that so I'm going to dedicate an entire post to it.  Would you believe we have been there a year now and I still haven't done a single post about it?!  That travesty will soon be remedied.  :)

BFFs

Maryn has a new BFF.  Her name is Elliott, and she is just 3 weeks younger than Maryn.  She and her parents, Kevin and Erica, just moved here for Kevin to get his PhD at Notre Dame.  We knew them in Oklahoma, and boy, are we excited that they are here!!!  We have lots in common - 1 year old girls, husbands in grad school, and Erica is also a PA.  How crazy is that?  It has been so nice to have them here.  We are already planning OU football watch parties!!  They are also going to church with us, so we have had the pleasure of spending lots of time with them and are looking forward to much more!

So anyway, Maryn and Elliott are destined to be best friends forever.  It's funny because developmentally they have a lot in common.  Both crawled about the same time, both took their first steps within a week of each other.  But in personality they are very opposite.  Maryn is very outspoken, and in-your-face friendly.  Elliott is very sweet, introverted, and contemplative.  And I think this means they will complement each other well!  We have had lots of fun watching them hang out together.

Swinging at the park!

I think they look guilty...double trouble :)

They think it's funny to drink their sippy cups together...and sometimes swap.

Pajama girls

At the zoo!!!

Louisville

Earlier this month, we got to spend a fun weekend in Louisville, KY visiting our dear friends CJ and Shelly, and their 2 boys Atticus and Ransom.  We had such a great time catching up, and it was lots of fun to see the kiddos interact.

Maryn and Ransom

Shelly gave us a tour of Southern.

We ate lots of good food.

Billy and his buddy Atticus

We also spent an afternoon playing in Louisville's beautiful park system.

Atticus found a big stick.

CJ and Ransom

The babies loved the swings.

We had such a sweet time of fellowship, and we are so thankful for our friendship.  We miss them lots!  

Push-Walking

I have a couple of blog posts in mind once I actually get the time to sit down and put them together.  Until then, I thought the grandparents would enjoy video of Maryn's newest skill - walking with the push toy we got her for her birthday.  She gets better every day and she has a ball with it.  Sorry that the video is sideways; I forgot to change it.